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I remember that, for a while, "I thought you were gay" was a common response to Spider-Man mentioning having a girlfriend or a wife. I think Brian Michael Bendis started it in ULTIMATE SPIDER-MAN, and it just sort of kept getting used. Even Aunt May admitted to her therapist that she suspected the reason Peter was going out at all hours and often coming back bruised was because he was gay—because we all know gAy SeX iS iNhErEnTlY vIoLeNt, amirite?

Yes, Peter's smart, sensitive, and (pre-Spidey Powers) non-athletic persona was something a lot of young men who felt like outsiders were drawn to, including many who were uncertain of their sexuality. Unlike Superman or Batman, Spider-Man was close in age to the readership of his comics in the 1960s-1980s, so his problems often mirrored his readers' problems—unsteady employment, working while going to school, having a roommate you couldn't really be yourself around, dealing with an asshole boss, having a personal life that was always interrupted by some obligation or another....

With that said, I doubt Disney/Marvel or Sony Pictures was even aware there might be a closeted person's subtext to their story. If they were they'd be trumpeting it a lot more ostentatiously, as if it were some Big Courageous Thing they'd done.

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