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Rachel Baldes's avatar

This film sounds interesting to me. I'm not sure if I'd enjoy watching it though. Being 47 it feels like I'm living in that reality and I have to say that it's amazing how much women compartmentalize and just kind of... ignore (?) the fact that eventually no matter what amount of effort they put into preventing it, we're seen even less than we were and our societal value becomes close to zero. And while I am dealing with the issue being more pronounced than it was when I first started hearing my age described as basically "too old to fuck" (like 39 lol) I know that really it's only getting worse from here on out. You can know something because it's been demonstrated to you every day of your life but that's really not enough preparation for the way it's going to make you feel. Knowing that it's ridiculous and shouldn't matter just makes you feel frustrated with yourself for being unhappy about it. Which isn't fair either. The best conversations I've had about this have been some really in depth ones with both men and women who were never considered attractive even when they were in the best shape of their early adulthood. It's kind of awesome that Demi Moore is playing someone who's probably supposed to be closer to my age though! I guess?

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Cornelius Donley's avatar

I loved every moment Dennis Quiad was in full close-up, mouth full of beautifully disgusting food, spewing patriarchy from his technicolor wardrobe. Reminded me of the game show scenes from Requiem for a Dream. Everything so surreal.

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