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Elizabeth Behnke's avatar

So true! If I hadn’t had an abortion at 21, when I was physically, mentally, and financially unable to even consider having a child, thousands of miles from family and broke, I would have been financially crippled for years and probably a terrible parent. After the pain of a d & c - no anesthesia, couldn’t afford it, I was super careful and never got pregnant again. I never really felt stable enough to have children while I was able, and don’t miss having them, particularly. I like and respect young people and they seem to like and (mostly 😉) respect me.

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Nancy Dunn's avatar

I’ve long made the economic consequences a part of my litany of objections to abortion restrictions.

One of the truths about abstract ideological positions is that (some? most?) people who hold them are known to relax their positions when it comes to family members or other people close to them. A staunch opponent of abortion might support a daughter in self-determination. Or a rigidly staunch parent might advocate considering abortion the second time it comes up if they see that the mom and child have suffered bc the antiabortion parents didn’t recognize what the daughter did: she knew she was ill equipped to raise a child.

I’m interested in continuing to have conversations, especially with people who vote to enshrine full reproductive freedom in state constitutions but also vote for candidates who threaten still more brutal restrictions. I think these conversations are more important than speculating about which little things we might want to tweak between now and the midterms and before next year’s municipal elections.

I’m curious about research you might have read about behind this statement: “Many conservatives believe that pregnant women should be willing, and if not willing, forced, to prioritize a blob of fetal tissue over their careers.” Given how many people in “red states” who have turned out to vote in favor of keeping government out of reproductive health care, “most conservatives” feels to me like overreach. But I’ve not explored whether there’s data behind you choice of phrasing. Not an attack; I am genuinely curious whether informing this small bit of your opinion.

[I’m a new subscriber, also tipped into $$ support of your work by your essay about slow fascism. Thanks for that.]

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