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mermcoelho's avatar

Fat phobia is insidious because it’s fed to us in so many subtle ways, and like you mentioned, at this point in history, it’s mostly socially acceptable. I find it turned inward, when I agonize over my menopausal weight gain. I know logically all the studies that show how weight loss is a gamble. And the pressure comes from everywhere, the medical establishment especially. How to not have pain from your arthritis? Be thin.

I’m trying to focus on those things that improve quality of life- exercise for healthy bones and brain for example- rather than self denial and punishment for the imagined sin of weight gain. I spend way too much time thinking about this, criticizing myself, and trying to find acceptance. I know the fat phobia I’ve been taught is wrong, but still I turn it on myself.

And, to be clear, I am not a fat person. I’m merely less thin. I mention this because I think we people (especially women) are constantly self critical, measuring ourselves against some imaginary ideal, even if we truly don’t want to, and don’t believe our with resides in our flesh. This fat phobia has been forced on us since we were children, and it’s incredibly difficult to get rid of it.

The way our culture (we, including me) puts our bodies at the center of worthiness is the clearest sign to me of our materialism. I wonder if this is another symptom of late stage capitalism, and if we can overcome it.

I feel like this is comment TMI, but for humans in this society, this is deeply personal.

Thank you for your insights into this book. I’m putting it on the list.

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Alan's avatar

Thanks for the review, and the breakdown. I've been hearing a lot about the connection between anti-Black and anti-fat bigotry, and it's still tough for me to grok. Is it just that as white society began to build its racial hierarchy, any tiny difference was seized upon by folks thirsty for justification of their moral superiority? I suppose that would feed in to obsessions with IQ and other metrics of hegemony.

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