Mr. Spock isn't usually thought of as a sex symbol exactly — but the many women I've known who have loved the show loved it, as often as not, in no small part because Nimoy in those ears prompted, not logical algorithms, but decidedly earthier palpitations. It's no accident that the first great rush of m/m slash fan fiction in the U.S. focused on Kirk/Spock. Though William Shatner's Kirk was always presented as the swaggering lothario, Spock's eroticism was at least equally potent, not least for being so deliberately and elaborately buried.
Spock was probably Trek's most powerful and successful character precisely because he embodied aspects of idealized masculinity which weren't, and still aren't, given much pop culture expression. Kirk, the dashing risk-taker, is the more typical male hero, a boisterous man's man of action.
But Spock's character is, in its own way, every bit as stereotypically masculine. He is super-strong, both in the sense that he has more-than-human physical prowess and endurance, and in the sense that he is super-stoic. He exhibits no emotion; he is calm, rational, logical, unflappable. But his lack of affect is not based in cruelty, but in kindness. If he's distant, it's not because he does not care, but because he refuses to impose his needs or desires.
Spock's single most iconic moment, the death in Wrath of Khan, neatly sums up his character as a whole. "The good of the many outweighs the good of the one," he declares, exposing himself to on-the-job radioactivity to save the ship and his friends — a very gendered sacrifice, considering who typically suffers from work-related fatalities. Spock's own needs, his own desires always come second; without bitterness or anger, he does the manly thing, putting his (dangerous) job and duty above his personal safety.
The combination of strength and self-abnegation is only made more appealing by the repeated assurance, throughout the series, that it is self-abnegation. Spock's logic conceals seething, boundless passion. As with any number of romantic heroes, from Rochester to Christian Grey, power is only made sexier by the revelation of inner weaknesses and wounds. Star Trek loved to show Spock coming apart, the logical veneer torn apart by uncontrollable passion. The loss of control is, inevitably, figured as sexual.
In "Devil in the Dark," Spock mind-melds with the Horta in what Kirk declares a "terrible personal lowering of mental barriers" — a moment of emotional nakedness leaving the usual sober Spock yelling and quivering." "This Side of Paradise" is even more explicit; Spock gets shot in the face with an alien flower, which releases him from his logical prison. "There's no need to hide your inner face anymore," the heroine declares as flute music plays — a scene that nicely echoes the emotional payoff of many a romance novel.
And, of course, there's "Amok Time," in which it's revealed that Vulcans periodically enter a kind of sexual frenzy ."It strips our minds from us. It brings a madness which rips away our veneer of civilisation. It is the pon farr. The time of mating." Again, the whole point of the episode is to show the uber-controlled Spock losing control — whether that means having a tender moment with Nurse Chapel, telling his wife how he burns, or letting loose an ear-to-ear grin when he sees that Kirk is alive (one of those moments that no doubt has launched a thousand fan fics).
It's easy to see Spock's appeal as a masculine icon. He's strong but not violent (nerve pinches, not fisticuffs); respectful of personal space but super-empathic (what with all those mind-melds); responsible and safe, but with passionate depths. The J.J. Abrams films and the Strange New Worlds reboot made Spock more of an obvious romantic lead, but in doing so they've abandoned the delicate balance between repression and accessibility, stoicism and vulnerability, which made Nimoy's Spock so attractive.
That attractiveness, though, can also seem a little disturbing. If Spock is a kind of ideal, that ideal seems to be masculinity as repression. There's something appealing, Spock seems to say, about a man so divorced from his own emotions that he has to be shot in the face with alien flower spores in order to be able to say, "I love you."
Spock's whole emotional life is one long act of self-sacrifice; love, hate, desire, all placed upon the alter of duty and workplace professionalism. If Spock were real, he would not be a fascinating, powerful alien, but a seriously broken human being, radically and disturbingly disconnected from his own emotional life. That this improbable character has been so popular says something about Nimoy's charisma, and something about how ambivalent we are about masculinity, which is most sexy when severed from sex, and most admirable when most repressed.
Haven’t done a Star Trek TOS rewatch in a while. I promise I’ll get back to it! In the meantime, this was no longer online, so thought I’d use it to tide us over the space gap for a bit.
I never believed Nimoy's Spock was as emotionless as he (and others) claimed—unless you believe "sass" isn't an emotion, because Nimoy's Spock is SASSY! So many of the Spock memes have him rolling his eyes in exasperation, raising his eyebrow either sarcastically or skeptically, his smirk as he turns back around to his station—he's not lacking in emotion, he's strictly disciplined his so as not to let his emotions rule him. (That "Vulcans replaced emotions with logic generations ago" thing always sounded more like a SF writer's invention than something sapient beings would actually do, anyway.)
He's more like the Stoics of Hellenic Greece than the "walking machine" McCoy so often snarled about him being.
Thanks for this! I've always been drawn to the "brainy sidekick" character. For example, as a kid watching "Wild, Wild West" I always preferred Artemis, the smart inventor played by Ross Martin, rather than brawny James West (played by Robert Conrad). I felt the same way about Mr. Spock--much cooler and more attractive than Jim Kirk. I wonder if others have similar preferences--more attracted to the person who intelligently solves problems even if less conventionally handsome than the "star"? The high school computer nerd rather than the football player? I know which type I (very happily) married decades ago--although much more demonstrative than Mr. Spock!