Myra Greene’s 2013 book of photos My White Friends examines stereotypes of white people. The main stereotype of white people being that there is no stereotype of white people.
As the title My White Friends says, Greene’s album is devoted to photos of her white friends . In one photo, two friends are standing on the porch holding their babies.
In another a friend sits in a room with an impressive view.
Greene says she was specifically working “to present stereotypes, not create faithful representations.” So the pictures are meant to present clichéd images— to show, not individuals, but iconographic, or iconic, whiteness.
In some photos, this comes across clearly. A picture of a guy on his driveway with his gut and his grill fits neatly into images of angry-white-man stereotypes.
Similarly, the photo of a woman posing with her golf club and Pink Panther golf bag in front of a golf course seems to fit into stereotypes about white people, poor taste, and golf. The woman’s hip-cocked pose and flirtatious crossed-legs perhaps also suggests ways in which white women’s sexuality is sometimes presented as clueless or self-parodic. White people, at least according to some stereotypes, aren’t sexy.
Both the grill guy and the golf woman manage to suggest stereotypes in part through references to lower-middle class leisure time banality. Photos that don’t pick up on such class markers, though, are harder to see as stereotypical. An image of a woman sitting on a sofa surrounded by clutter just looks like an image of a woman sitting on a sofa surrounded by clutter, not as some sort of commentary on the messiness of white people in general.
Similarly, the photo of a woman sitting in a chair with some sort of children’s toy off to the side doesn’t seem like a stereotype. It just seems like she’s a woman who probably has kids. So what?
To some degree, you could see the photos as creating stereotypes simply by insisting on the whiteness of the sitters. Greene has specifically placed these individuals in her lens as representatives of whiteness; as a result, every detail, no matter how neutral, becomes charged, constraining, and, inevitably, insulting. The picture of the woman sitting amidst the clutter, for example, becomes a commentary on white people’s messiness, and perhaps (with that Priority Mail box off to the side) on their frantic workaholic obsession. Or a picture of a woman wearing jeans in front of a building becomes about how white people always wear jeans and stand in front of buildings — how about those jeans-wearing, building-adjacent white people, huh?
In other words, the photos mark white people, so that you notice the sitters as marked, and attribute whatever they wear, or do, or don’t do, to their whiteness, just as, in America, black people have traditionally been marked, so whatever they wear (be it caps or sweatshirts or business suits), or do, or don’t do becomes a way to single them out for notice, censure, and discrimination.
What’s maybe most marked in the photos, though, is the way that even thought the project demands that you mark the people in the images, they still, for the most part, don’t end up being marked. You have to work to make that girl standing in a snowy field mean something about whiteness, and even when you do, it’s still not especially convincing or visceral. You can make up a story about how the woman with the clutter is a stereotype, but it feels pretty thin. Even when you’re trying, whiteness doesn’t read as whiteness. It just reads as…well, as nothing.
And that’s maybe the real stereotype of whiteness. The essence of whiteness, in America, is that it isn’t marked. Whiteness is the default. It has no meaning — or, rather, it’s meaning is no meaning. The stereotype of white people is that they aren’t stereotyped; their race, for the most part, has no effect on who they are as individuals. Even when you point to it, whiteness is invisible. Whiteness, these photos suggest, is the power of not having to live with whiteness. It’s the magical ability to make everyone think that, in America, your skin color has nothing to do with who you are.
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This first ran on Splice Today in 2013. I thought it was still interesting, so have reupped it.











I was going to mention defaults—but not only did you get there right after I thought that, you did some great further interpretation with the concept. Good stuff!
It's interesting to think about whiteness for sure. Years ago, I was listening to a black speaker who asked how many white people have black friends? I had a couple when I was young that I occasionally hung out with, but as an adult I had none. I finally met a beautiful black woman on a flight from Miami about 8 or 9 years ago and we chatted for a couple of hours, exchanged info, and still chat to this day, via long distance. When I think of whiteness I think of lack of excitement, lack of spice in life, somewhat boring. Hubby used to tell me that I think I'm Mexican, lol.