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Bill Flarsheim's avatar

I enjoyed you piece in Dame Magazine. Except that my hair is not kinky, I suspect that our place in teen social life was similar.

The people preaching about the importance of masculinity often conflate two aspects in their definition. Protecting, procreating (which is optional), and providing are not masculine traits, they are grownup traits. Being a grownup means protecting and providing for children, elderly, and the wider community, because you are an adult and can. Your gender doesn’t matter. Adult men and women are on equal footing in this regard. The rest of “masculinity,” six-pack abs and golf swings, is just the battle to be cock of the walk. They desperately want their great plumage to make them the to top animal in the barnyard, and are very threatened when their display is ignored.

mermcoelho's avatar

The AI poem- it got me. I feel it encroaching, trying to pick up little tasks here and there. It’s probably doing far more than I’m aware of. I keep fighting though.

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